Catholic First Communion as a guest

01 Before the day

A Catholic First Communion is celebrated within a parish Mass, typically on a Saturday or Sunday in May. The Mass may be a designated First Communion Mass with multiple children from the parish receiving for the first time, or it may be a regular Sunday Mass into which the First Communicants are incorporated. The family or the parish notice will indicate the format.

02 Attire

Church-formal: a jacket and tie or sport coat for men; a dress, skirt, or smart trousers for women. The day is a family celebration somewhat more formal than a regular Sunday Mass.

03 The gift

A small religious gift for the child is conventional: a children's missal, a children's Bible, a rosary, a cross or medal. Practical gifts (a children's book, a piece of clothing) are also appropriate; cash or a check from godparents and close family is common.

04 At the Mass

Guests typically arrive 15 minutes before the Mass begins. Seating is normally open; the family of the First Communicant is seated in the front. The newly-communicating children process in together and sit in a designated front section.

The Mass proceeds as usual; at Communion the First Communicants receive first, then their families, then the rest of the congregation. Non-Catholic guests are welcome at the Mass but are not invited to receive Communion. The customary choice is to remain in the pew, or to come forward with arms crossed for a blessing.

05 After the Mass

Photographs after the Mass are typical; the family often gathers the child with grandparents, godparents, and other family for portraits. A family reception at home or a restaurant often follows.