01 Your role at a Christian baptism

Different roles at a baptism involve different preparation and different expectations. The role-by-role timelines below cover what is typical across the five tradition families. Each tradition pill opens a dedicated page for that role at that tradition.

As the parents

The most procedurally specific role for paedobaptist traditions (Catholic, Orthodox, Anglican, Mainline Protestant): scheduling the baptism, attending the preparation, selecting godparents under canonical or congregational requirements, and presenting the child at the rite. For Evangelical traditions, the parent role covers the child’s personal profession of faith and the conversation with the pastor.

As a godparent

The Catholic baptismal godparent role is the most procedurally specific in any Christian tradition, with explicit canonical requirements under CIC c. 874 (16+, confirmed, in regular sacramental life). Orthodox practice has the more visible <em>anadochos</em> / <em>vospriemnik</em> role. Anglican and Mainline practice is lighter and more flexible. Evangelical traditions have no formal godparent role.

As a guest

What to wear, when to arrive, communion etiquette, and how the rite unfolds in each tradition. Catholic baptisms are short and family-centered; Orthodox baptisms are longer and more elaborate; Anglican baptisms are part of the principal Sunday Eucharist; evangelical believer’s baptisms are by full immersion.

As a non-Christian guest

How to be present at a Christian baptism without being expected to participate in the religious responses. The questions of the rite are addressed to parents, godparents, and (in Anglican and Mainline practice) the gathered congregation; non-Christian guests are present as witnesses. Written for guests attending Catholic, Orthodox, and Anglican baptisms, the three traditions whose rites have the most distinctive moments.

02 Choosing the name

In sacramental Christian traditions (Catholic, Orthodox, Anglican), the child is baptized in a name. The name is given at birth in Catholic, Anglican, and Mainline Protestant practice and confirmed liturgically at the baptism itself; in Orthodox practice the Naming on the Eighth Day rite precedes the baptism by several weeks. Catholic canon law (CIC c. 855) directs that the name be "not foreign to Christian sentiment"; Orthodox practice almost universally uses a saint's name, with the saint becoming the patron and the saint's feast becoming the child's name day.

The Christian naming guide covers the choice in depth: what naming means in Christian tradition, how different traditions handle it, the role of saints' names and biblical names, names through scripture, and the Orthodox name day tradition. The Christian names index carries individual entries on biblical figures, major saints, and names with Christian etymological roots.

03 The parents at the baptism

The baptism rite places substantial weight on the parents. In Catholic practice, the priest addresses the parents and asks what they ask of God's Church for the child; the parents' yes is part of what makes the baptism a Catholic baptism. In Anglican and Mainline Protestant practice, the parents are normally addressed as the principal adults in whose hands the child's Christian formation has been placed. In Evangelical and non-denominational dedication services (in traditions that do not baptize infants), the parents make explicit commitments to raise the child in the faith.

The Christian parenting guide covers the parents' continuing work after the baptism, from the home as the principal site of formation through the long arc of raising the child in the faith.

04 What happens by tradition

The five major Christian tradition families baptize differently. The differences are practical and theological; both are visible in what happens at the rite.

Catholic 23% of US Christians

A Catholic baptism is normally an infant baptism, celebrated in the first weeks or months of the child's life. The rite involves the parents and godparents presenting the child to the priest, the priest tracing the sign of the cross on the child's forehead and inviting the parents and godparents to do the same, the Liturgy of the Word with readings and a brief homily, the renunciation of sin and profession of faith by parents and godparents, the actual baptism (pouring of water on the head three times), the anointing with sacred chrism, the giving of the white garment and the lighted candle, and the final blessing.

The rite takes 20-30 minutes when celebrated outside Mass and is normally celebrated in the parish church on a Sunday afternoon, sometimes alongside several other families. Where the family requests, the baptism can be celebrated within a Sunday Mass; this is less common in US practice. The conversation with the priest in the weeks before normally covers the readings, the godparents' canonical eligibility, and the baptismal name.

Orthodox 1% of US Christians

An Orthodox baptism is celebrated alongside chrismation and first Communion in a single combined rite, typically at or near 40 days after birth. The rite is longer and more elaborate than Catholic baptism, running 60-90 minutes. The principal moments: the renunciation of Satan (the catechumen, or in the case of an infant the godparent, turns to face west and renounces), the profession of faith (facing east), the blessing of the baptismal water, the triple immersion in the font (the child is fully immersed three times, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit), the anointing with holy chrism (chrismation, the Orthodox parallel to Western Confirmation), the cutting of a small lock of hair as offering, and the first reception of Communion.

The font is a substantial one and the child is fully immersed; the wet child is then dried and re-vested in white. Orthodox families normally attend a number of Sunday Divine Liturgies in the weeks leading up to the baptism. Practice varies by jurisdiction (Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America, Orthodox Church in America, Antiochian, Russian); the parish priest is the source for the local form.

Anglican / Episcopal 1% of US Christians

An Anglican or Episcopal baptism is normally an infant baptism celebrated within the principal Sunday Eucharist, in the visible presence of the gathered congregation. The 1979 Book of Common Prayer (in The Episcopal Church) or the 2019 Book of Common Prayer (in the Anglican Church in North America) provides the rite. The principal moments: the presentation of the candidates, the renunciations and affirmations by parents and godparents, the baptismal covenant addressed to the whole congregation, the blessing of the water, the actual baptism (water poured three times on the head), the chrismation (anointing with consecrated oil) where the tradition observes it, and the Eucharist that follows.

The Anglican rite is distinctive among Christian traditions in placing the baptism within the principal Sunday Eucharist with the gathered congregation participating actively. The whole assembly renews their own baptismal vows at the same time. Most Episcopal and ACNA families have the baptism on a Sunday determined in conversation with the rector.

Mainline Protestant 14% of US Christians

Lutheran, Methodist, Presbyterian, and Reformed baptisms are normally infant baptisms celebrated within the Sunday service. The form varies by denomination: ELCA Lutheran practice follows the Evangelical Lutheran Worship rite; LCMS practice follows the Lutheran Service Book; UMC Methodist practice follows the United Methodist Book of Worship; PCUSA Presbyterian practice follows the Book of Common Worship; PCA and EPC Presbyterian practice follows the relevant denominational books.

The shape across these traditions is broadly similar: presentation of the candidate, parental and congregational affirmations, the blessing of the water (in some traditions), the baptism (typically by pouring, though immersion is permitted), and a welcome by the congregation. Mainline Protestant traditions place substantial weight on the gathered congregation's role in supporting the family in the child's Christian formation, often with a corporate welcome at the conclusion of the rite.

Evangelical / Non-denominational 25% of US Christians

In Evangelical, Baptist, non-denominational, and Pentecostal practice, baptism is normally believer's baptism: given to a person who has made a personal profession of faith. The candidate is typically older than the paedobaptist traditions (some baptize as young as 6 or 7; others wait until adolescence). The baptism is by full immersion in most Baptist and many Evangelical traditions; some non-denominational congregations baptize by pouring.

The rite is shorter and less liturgically structured than the paedobaptist traditions. The pastor asks the candidate to profess their faith publicly, lowers them into the water (immersion) or pours water over the head (in traditions that practice pouring), and pronounces them baptized in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. The conversation with the pastor before the baptism is normally substantive: the pastor wants to confirm that the candidate has a real sense of what the baptism means and what they are professing.

05 Readings used at Christian baptisms

Certain passages are heard at almost every Christian baptism. The Matthew 28:19-20 commission ("Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit") appears in nearly every Christian baptismal rite. The baptism of Jesus by John the Baptist (Mark 1:9-11, Matthew 3:13-17, Luke 3:21-22, John 1:29-34) is widely read. Romans 6:3-11 (baptism as participation in Christ's death and resurrection) is common in Catholic, Anglican, Lutheran, and Reformed liturgies. The Spirit-coming-on-the-waters language of Genesis 1:1-2 appears in some traditions' blessing of the water.

06 Companion guides

Three cross-cutting references on baptism live in their own hubs: the principal readings with tradition-specific lectionaries, gift conventions by role and tradition, and card-wording variations by register.

07 Common questions

What should I wear to a Christian baptism?
Church-formal in most Christian traditions: a suit and tie for men; a dress, skirt, or formal trousers for women. The Catholic baptism is normally one of the most family-relaxed liturgies and slightly less formal dress is acceptable; the Orthodox baptism is normally more formal. The principal candidate (or the principal candidate's family, in an infant baptism) is normally in white. Guests do not wear white unless explicitly invited to do so.
What is the difference between a baptism and a christening?
In most US Christian usage the two terms are synonyms, both referring to the rite of baptism. Some Catholic families use "christening" to refer specifically to the naming aspect of the rite (the child being given a Christian name); some Anglican families use the term interchangeably with baptism. In Orthodox practice "baptism" is the universal term; "christening" is rare. Both terms refer to the same sacrament.
Who can be a godparent?
Catholic practice has the most specific requirements: under CIC c. 874, a godparent must be at least 16, baptized, confirmed, and in regular sacramental life (Mass attendance, Communion). A non-Catholic Christian can serve as a witness (not a godparent in the canonical sense). Orthodox practice requires the godparent to be a baptized Orthodox Christian in good standing. Anglican and Mainline Protestant practice is normally lighter, with the local pastor confirming what is asked. Evangelical traditions do not normally have a formal godparent role; some congregations use the term informally for adults who commit to supporting the child's faith formation.
Should non-Christian guests participate in the responses?
No. The renunciations and the profession of faith at the rite are addressed to the parents, godparents, and (in Anglican and Mainline Protestant practice) the gathered Christian congregation. Non-Christian guests are present as witnesses to a Christian moment in the life of the family. Standing and sitting with the congregation, observing respectfully, and not voicing the Christian responses is the normal pattern.
Is the baptism the same as the child being given a name?
In Catholic, Anglican, and Mainline Protestant practice, the name is given at birth and used at the baptism; the rite confirms the name liturgically but does not give it. In Orthodox practice, the name is given at the Naming on the Eighth Day rite (separate from baptism); the child is then baptized in that name. In Evangelical believer's baptism practice the name is the candidate's ordinary legal name; there is no specific naming aspect. The Christian naming guide covers the choice in depth.
How long does a baptism take?
A Catholic infant baptism celebrated outside Mass typically takes 20-30 minutes. An Orthodox baptism (which is celebrated alongside chrismation and first Communion) takes 60-90 minutes. An Anglican or Mainline Protestant baptism within the Sunday Eucharist adds 10-15 minutes to the service. An Evangelical believer's baptism by immersion typically takes 10-15 minutes, usually celebrated within the Sunday gathering.
Can baptism be re-done if a family changes traditions?
Catholic, Orthodox, Anglican, and most Mainline Protestant traditions recognize each other's baptisms (where the baptism was in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, with water). A person baptized in any of these traditions is not normally re-baptized when moving to another. Most Evangelical, Baptist, and Pentecostal traditions hold that infant baptism is not the baptism the New Testament describes; a person baptized as an infant who joins a believer's-baptism tradition is normally baptized again as a believer. The pastor at the receiving tradition is the source for what is asked.

08 Pastoral note

Last updated: May 20, 2026