Catholic Confirmation as a guest

01 Before the day

A Catholic Confirmation is celebrated within a Mass, normally by the diocesan bishop (CIC c. 882). One bishop confirms an entire class of candidates from one or several parishes at a single Mass. The Mass typically runs 90 minutes or more, depending on the size of the class.

02 Attire and gifts

Church-formal attire is typical. A religious gift for the confirmand is conventional: a Bible, a cross or medal, a piece of religious art, or a prayer book. Cash or a check from godparents and close family is also common.

03 At the Mass

Guests typically arrive 20 to 30 minutes before the Mass begins. The candidates and sponsors are seated together at the front; family is seated immediately behind; non-family guests behind the family. The Mass proceeds through the readings, the homily (often given by the bishop), and the rite of Confirmation. Each candidate comes forward with their sponsor; the bishop anoints the candidate's forehead with chrism. The Mass continues to the Liturgy of the Eucharist.

Non-Catholic guests are welcome at the Mass but are not invited to receive Communion. The customary choice is to remain in the pew, or to come forward with arms crossed for a blessing.

04 After the Mass

Family photographs after the Mass are typical. A family reception (often at home, sometimes at a restaurant) often follows.