Catholic First Communion as the candidate
Written for parents reading on behalf of a child preparing for First Communion: the year-long parish preparation, First Reconciliation, the rite itself, and the family customs around the day.
01 Before the preparation year
Catholic First Communion in US practice is typically celebrated in second grade, when the child has reached the canonical age of discretion (CIC c. 914) and is able to understand, in age-appropriate form, what the Eucharist is. The preparation is a one-year programme through the parish religious education programme.
Registration for the parish religious education programme normally opens the summer before second grade; some parishes register children earlier. The parish religious education office is the source for the local schedule.
02 The preparation year
Through the school year, the child attends weekly or biweekly classes at the parish religious education programme (Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, or CCD, in many parishes) or in the parish school's religion class. The classes cover the basic catechism on the Eucharist, the Real Presence, the meaning of receiving Communion, and the moral framework for receiving worthily.
Parents are typically expected to attend a small number of parent sessions during the preparation year. The format varies by parish; many parishes hold one or two evening meetings to walk parents through the rite and the family's role.
03 First Reconciliation
Before First Communion, the child must make a First Reconciliation (CIC c. 914). First Reconciliation is typically celebrated in Advent or Lent of the same school year as First Communion. The preparation includes age-appropriate catechesis on sin, conscience, and the sacrament of confession.
The child meets with the priest individually for the first confession. The priest will be gentle and age-appropriate; the child is normally well prepared by the catechesis and is rarely overwhelmed.
04 The First Communion Mass
First Communion is celebrated within a Mass at the parish, typically on a Saturday or Sunday in May. The Mass may be a designated First Communion Mass with multiple candidates from the parish, or it may be a regular Sunday Mass into which the First Communicants are incorporated.
The newly communicating children typically process in together, sit in a designated front section, and receive Communion before the rest of the congregation. After the Mass, photographs and a parish reception are common; family receptions at home are also typical.
The child must observe the one-hour Eucharistic fast from food and drink (water and medicine excepted) before receiving Communion (CIC c. 919 §1). For a late-morning Sunday Mass, the family normally has breakfast quite early.
05 Common questions
What age is Catholic First Communion?
Does the child need to go to confession first?
What does the child need to know?
What does the child wear?
Is there a fast before Communion?
06 Pastoral note
Last reviewed against primary sources: May 17, 2026