01 How anniversary readings are chosen

Anniversary observances are typically less formally lectionary-bound than weddings. Catholic practice: a couple celebrating a significant anniversary (commonly the 25th or 50th) requests either a Nuptial Blessing within a Sunday Mass or a separate anniversary Mass; the priest selects from the Order of Celebrating Matrimony lectionary, often in conversation with the couple. Orthodox practice: a Service of Thanksgiving (a Doxology) is more typical than a full liturgical observance; the appointed readings of the day are used, sometimes with a brief Old Testament addition.

Anglican / Episcopal practice: the Renewal of Marriage Vows is a defined rite in the 1979 Book of Common Prayer; the rector selects readings, often returning to the couple's wedding readings or pairing them with new selections. Mainline Protestant practice varies; the pastor and couple typically choose together. Evangelical practice is the most open; readings are normally chosen by the couple and pastor for the specific anniversary.

02 The principal readings

Ten scripture passages cover most of what is heard at US Christian anniversary blessings. The pill on each row notes the convention or category; Bible1.org links open the full chapter, and the deuterocanonical Sirach 26 and Tobit 8 link to the USCCB's NABRE.

1 Corinthians 13:1-13 NT · ~AD 53-54
The love chapter. The principal Christian wedding reading and equally the principal anniversary reading: a couple at a long anniversary returns to the passage with the weight of years behind it.
Most common
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 OT
"A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." Often read at anniversaries to name the resilience the marriage has shown across the years; particularly common at significant anniversaries (25th, 50th).
Old Testament
Ruth 1:16-17 OT
"Where you go I will go." Originally Ruth's pledge to Naomi, now read at marriage and anniversary services as the language of unconditional fidelity.
Old Testament
Hosea 2:14-23 OT
"I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness." God's covenant renewal with Israel as the prophetic figure for marriage faithfulness across time. Read at some anniversary blessings, especially in Catholic and Anglican parishes.
Covenant renewal
Sirach 26:1-4, 13-16 Deutero
"Happy the husband of a good wife... A gracious wife delights her husband; her thoughtfulness puts flesh on his bones." A Catholic lectionary option at marriage and anniversary. Linked here to the USCCB's NABRE, since Sirach is deuterocanonical.
Catholic
Tobit 8:4-8 Deutero
Tobias and Sarah's wedding-night prayer, often read at significant anniversaries (especially in Catholic and Orthodox practice) as the original Christian marriage prayer. Linked here to the USCCB's NABRE.
Catholic / Orthodox
Mark 10:6-9 NT
Jesus on marriage: "What God has joined together, let no one separate." Read at marriage and anniversary in nearly every Christian tradition.
Gospel
John 15:9-17 NT
"Abide in my love... Greater love has no one than this." Jesus' farewell discourse, read at marriage and anniversary for the framing of love as enduring commitment.
Gospel
Colossians 3:12-17 NT
"Bear with each other and forgive each other... let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts." Read at anniversary across Catholic, Anglican, and Mainline Protestant practice for the lived-out shape of a marriage across time.
Pauline
Ephesians 5:21-33 NT · ~AD 62
The Pauline marriage passage. Contested at weddings (see /readings/wedding/), less commonly contested at anniversaries; couples who chose to include the passage at the wedding normally include it again at significant anniversaries.
Pauline

03 Tradition-specific selections

The selections diverge by what the tradition reads as the appropriate anniversary observance.

Catholic anniversary lectionary

Catholic anniversary observances draw on the Order of Celebrating Matrimony lectionary, the same set used at weddings. Old Testament: Genesis 2:18-24, Tobit 8:4b-8, Sirach 26:1-4, 13-16, Song of Songs 2 or 8, Ruth 1:16-17. Epistle: 1 Corinthians 13:1-13, Romans 12, Colossians 3:12-17, 1 John 4:7-12, Ephesians 5:21-33. Gospel: Mark 10:6-9, Matthew 19:3-6, John 2:1-11 (Cana), John 15:9-17. The Diocesan or Archdiocesan Mass for Jubilarian Couples (typically held annually for 25th and 50th anniversary couples) uses an appointed set.

Orthodox practice

The Orthodox tradition does not have a separate sacramental anniversary rite parallel to the Crowning. A Service of Thanksgiving (a Doxology) is the typical observance, sometimes with an added Old Testament reading on covenant faithfulness. Anniversaries are kept within the household and the parish community rather than as a distinct liturgical event.

Anglican / Episcopal Renewal of Marriage Vows

The 1979 Book of Common Prayer includes a rite for the Renewal of Marriage Vows; the 2019 ACNA BCP carries a parallel rite. Readings are selected by the couple with the rector; typical choices include 1 Corinthians 13, Ephesians 3:14-19 or 5:21-33, Mark 10:6-9, or John 15:9-12.

Mainline Protestant selections

Methodist, Presbyterian, Lutheran, and Reformed anniversary observances range from informal blessings at the close of a Sunday service to more substantial anniversary services. Readings are typically chosen by the couple in conversation with the pastor; the wedding readings are often returned to.

Evangelical practice

Evangelical anniversary observances are typically less liturgically formal. Vow renewals are common, sometimes held alongside a vow-renewal couple's retreat or marriage seminar. Readings are chosen by the couple, often returning to the wedding readings or adding a passage that names the years (Ecclesiastes 4 or Colossians 3 are common).

04 Common questions

How are anniversary readings chosen?
Anniversary blessings are typically less formally lectionary-bound than weddings. In Catholic practice, a couple celebrating a significant anniversary may request a Nuptial Blessing within a Sunday Mass or a separate anniversary Mass; the priest selects readings, often the same ones read at the original wedding (where the couple recalls them) or new selections appropriate to the years since. In Orthodox practice, a Service of Thanksgiving (Doxology) is more typical; the appointed readings of the day are used. Anglican and Mainline Protestant practice typically pairs the couple's choice with the rector or pastor's guidance, often returning to the wedding readings.
Is the renewal of vows part of the readings?
The renewal of vows is a separate ritual element from the readings. In many Catholic, Anglican, and Mainline Protestant anniversary observances, the renewal of vows happens after the homily and the readings have been heard, with the couple standing before the altar or the assembled family. The vows are typically the same as the wedding vows, sometimes with an added line acknowledging the years passed. The readings frame the renewal; the renewal is the next moment in the rite.
What readings are particularly associated with the 25th or 50th anniversary?
The 25th (silver) and 50th (gold) anniversaries are normally observed in Catholic parishes with a Nuptial Blessing within a Sunday or special Mass. The principal readings often returned to: 1 Corinthians 13, Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 ("a cord of three strands"), Mark 10:6-9, and Sirach 26:1-4 (the Catholic option). The 50th anniversary is sometimes marked by a Diocesan or Archdiocesan Mass for Jubilarian Couples, with appointed readings; the parish anniversary celebration draws on the marriage lectionary.
What about ecumenical or interfaith anniversaries?
For an interchurch marriage (e.g., Catholic-Methodist) celebrating an anniversary at one of the two churches, the readings normally follow that tradition's lectionary; the other partner's tradition may suggest an additional reading that names the long marriage from its perspective. For an interfaith marriage (e.g., Christian-Jewish), the anniversary observance varies widely and the readings depend on which tradition's service the couple is keeping; both partners' clergy are normally the source for what works.
How private should an anniversary blessing be?
Anniversary blessings range from a brief private blessing by the priest at the end of a Sunday Mass to a full anniversary Mass with family, friends, and the parish community. The 25th and 50th anniversaries are normally fuller observances. Smaller intermediate anniversaries (10th, 15th, 30th, 40th) are often observed privately or with only close family. The couple's and the priest's sense of what is appropriate normally settles this.

05 Pastoral note

Last reviewed against primary sources: May 17, 2026