Anglican funeral as a eulogist
What is typically asked of a family member or friend giving a eulogy at an Anglican or Episcopal funeral, across TEC and ACNA practice.
01 Before you say yes
Anglican and Episcopal funerals commonly include a tribute or remarks of remembrance by a family member or friend. The 1979 BCP and the 2019 BCP both permit it within the rite of the Burial Office, typically before the Commendation.
Practice varies by parish. Some parishes invite a single tribute; some permit multiple; some prefer that fuller eulogies happen at the reception or the evening before, with only a brief reflection at the service itself.
02 The conversation with the priest
The eulogist normally has a conversation with the priest in advance. The priest will confirm the timing (where in the service the tribute is offered), the expected length (typically 3 to 7 minutes), and any specific pastoral expectations. Some parishes ask for the text in advance.
03 Content and tone
An Anglican or Episcopal funeral eulogy is principally a personal remembrance of the deceased. A brief scripture quotation, a prayer, or a hymn reference are appropriate within the prayer-book service that surrounds the tribute. The principal content remains the personal one.
Practical guidance: write the tribute out in full; practice reading it aloud; aim for the priest's specified length; close with a brief moment of prayer or a simple expression of gratitude.
04 On the day
The eulogist is normally invited to the lectern after the readings and before the Commendation, depending on the parish's order. The priest will signal the moment. The eulogist speaks, returns to their seat, and the service proceeds.
05 Common questions
How long should an Anglican or Episcopal funeral eulogy be?
Can the eulogy include scripture or prayers?
What if the eulogist is not Christian?
06 Pastoral note
Last reviewed against primary sources: May 17, 2026